So many, and yet
over the long years
they fade, not quite gone
but changed: pale and far –
no longer a spot of wrongness
marking the smooth surface,
but a soft remembrance,
less of breakage and pain
than a kind of beauty
or even of gain …
lessons learned, hurts survived.
In idle moments I trace
the vestiges, finding not
disfigurement, no remnants
of any ancient ache, but
only a strange, delicate grace.
Written for Friday Writings #188: Telling Scars at Poets and Storytellers United.
Oh I love this and especially the last line "only a strange, delicate grace"
ReplyDeleteThanks, Marja, glad you enjoyed reading.
DeleteYes...both physical and emotional..."strange, delicate grace"!!! I feel this poem!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to know it came through that this applies to both physical and emotional scars.
DeleteVery well penned. Graduating from pain to patience to grace.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the insightful reading.
DeleteWell-written, Rosemary. Scars tell of experience and give us strength... And yes, grace too.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your understanding.
DeleteWhat a beautiful ending to this wise and contemplative poem - Jae
ReplyDelete'Thanks, dear Jae. I'm glad to return the favour for the many wise, contemplative and beautiful poems of yours that I've enjoyed!
DeleteYour poem reminds me of a time someone commented to me that I would regret my tattoos one day. I told her that I was already 40 years old, and asked when will I start to regret them? I realise that that conversation was almost 20 years ago now! I wear my scars with pride, after all I chose them.
ReplyDeleteOh, so you should! I am even older than you, and am contemplating finally getting some tatts.
DeleteLove this, Rosemary, almost can love your recovery. As we age things also change.
ReplyDeleteHow true! Thanks, Jim.
DeleteThat is a great attitude for scars of all persuasions.
ReplyDeleteIt's just how it is for me now. A benefit of ageing, I suppose (there are some).
DeleteScars from an adventurous life have grace. I'm not sure about the kind people pay to have done to make themselves seem more interesting. A good scar has a story behind it...dramatic, or funny, or cautionary, or even unprintable.
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It seems almost commonplace these days for all sorts of people to have some 'ink' somewhere; no longer considered socially unacceptable as it was when I was growing up.
DeleteI love the last words of this well told poem.
ReplyDeleteThanks; may it prove so for us all in the end!
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